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One Year

July 7, 2021 by Kelly Leave a Comment

One year ago I drove into town with my truck and U-Haul, two dogs very tired of the road and a brand new (old) house ahead of me.

Though the signing was mid-morning my realtor allowed me to begin unloading and graciously let the dogs stay in her air conditioned office while we walked down the block to sign the paperwork.

The funds had already been transferred and without a mortgage, it was a quick process. I soon had the keys and the real work began.

I got a quote for insurance, got my utilities turned on, set up a PO Box, and went to Wal-Mart for the essentials: an air mattress and a fan.

See, most of my belongings were in a POD in Wichita so I was unloading the truck but had very little of my “stuff.” Nothing for the kitchen, which was fine because I also had no stove, fridge or microwave. No linens except the pile of pillows the dogs had slept on the whole drive from California. No real groceries, again fine because no way to keep them from spoiling.

As soon as the UHaul was empty I was off to return it, grateful to get the truck back so it could reverse and go through Drive-Thrus.

Just imagine, if you will, driving 2,000ish miles, during the worst of COVID-19, with restaurants closed, most drive-thrus inaccessible and two dogs. It was a pain.

Once I had my truck empty I quickly bought a mini fridge, a few more fans, a microwave and began looking for appliances — most of which were sold out, on backorder or just plain unavailable.

As I look around my house today I see all the work I’ve put in. Curtains so the passing cars don’t see me changing clothes, paint on the wall to cover up the ugly beige, furniture! I moved in with little more than a bed, desk and dresser, along with a few arm chairs and now I have storage, a china cabinet, media center, dining table… it’s great!

The yard has probably seen the most transformation in the year. I hired someone to install a fence, brought home a pool, installed raised garden beds, bought a hammock, grill, bench, table and chairs and have planted so many lovely green things.

I still have a list two miles long with all the changes I want to make and the improvements that are coming soon. But for today I’ll appreciate the anniversary of buying my house and creating my home.

Filed Under: Hamilton Challenge, Musings

Relief

November 7, 2020 by Kelly

It’s been a few months since I wrote here as I shifted most of my “essays” to posts on Facebook and Instagram. But this feels like it needs a permanent home.

At 11:30 local time the last precincts submitted the vote tally that pushed Pennsylvania solidly into a win for Biden, edging him over the necessary 270 electoral votes needed to win the Presidency.

I felt immediate relief. While I’m acutely aware that our work is not done, not for racial justice, equality, climate change, political reform, any of it, I still let out a breath I’d been holding for 5 years.

I am relieved that the next President is a man who can speak in complete sentences, with empathy and eloquence.

I am relieved that a liar has had his bully pulpit taken away so he can no longer poison the minds of people from our national press.

I am relieved that the voice and will of the people was heard, votes were counted and Biden prevailed.

I am thankful to the organizers who worked so hard, to those who fought to get to the polls, stood in long lines and submitted provisional ballots. I am thankful to the hardworking members of the election boards, counters, poll workers and the USPS for all their efforts. I’m thankful to every single person who cast a ballot for decency.

And my resolve remains, there are certain folks who are not welcome in my home because of the racist and evil they support in the world. They are the Taliban, the KKK and those who voted for Trump – they have their support of Trump in common and I choose not to host them, break bread with them or listen to them spew hatred.

Filed Under: Hamilton Challenge

If you smell gas….

September 27, 2020 by Kelly Leave a Comment

Let me paint the picture. It’s 10pm and pitch black outside. I’m sitting on the front porch of my home with a flashlight, phone and iced tea waiting for the gas company.

It’s strangely peaceful with my wireless headphone piping meditation music into one ear and crickets chirping in the other.

The back porch of my home is the laundry room and it contains an ancient gas heater. Today, after moving it to wash the wall behind, I began to smell gas.

The door to the house is shut and has a towel at the bottom but here I am, outside, waiting for someone to arrive and turn off the gas line.

To the south the moon is rising and there are no cars passing by, just the distant sound of dogs barking. I happen to be wearing a gray sweater and black tights so I feel like a ninja hiding in the darkness.

Don’t turn on any lights.
Don’t start any appliances.
Do not, under any circumstances, light a candle.

Blocks away the church bells ring 10 times.

I’m going to read the latest on my Kindle app until the technician arrives. When pressed the gas company operator said “soon” so I’m guessing sometime between now and Monday.

Filed Under: Hamilton Challenge

Chadwick

August 30, 2020 by Kelly

Yesterday sucked. Seeing the news, late in the evening, that Chadwick Boseman had died at just 43 was a shock.

As I read the memories from his friends and colleagues, I know my sadness is just a fraction of theirs. I know there was no personal connection to the man on the screen. But I still grieve.

Immediately after learning he had been fighting cancer for 4 years I was shocked. How could we not know? Then, rationally, I understand that it was not our place to know. I can’t imagine how hard he fought. How he continued to do movies and press and chemo. How he spoke about purpose and legacies and married his wife – all knowing that he could die.

What a blessing that he was not also overwhelmed with the well-intentioned busybodies that would have wondered what treatment he was on, if he’d tried herbal medicine, what doctor he was seeing, if he was still vegetarian, what stage the cancer had reached, why he didn’t try this therapy or that regime. Thank God he was spared the endless death watch of the media, the people who reached out for their own clout or virtue signaling instead of true friendship and concern.

Actors give so much of themselves on the screen, the best ones make us feel like friends. We become invested in their stories and their lives. But that doesn’t exclude them from experiencing privacy, especially about their most difficult struggles.

The real question is, what would you have done if you’d known sooner? How can you bring that behavior into your life right now? Because if you knew your hero would die, decades soon than expected, would you have written a letter? Thanked him on social media?

If so, do that now. It may be too late for Chadwick to hear how much he meant to all of us, but it’s not too late for those still here.

Filed Under: Hamilton Challenge

Customer “Service”

August 24, 2020 by Kelly

When I was accepted at University and sent in my intention to attend it began a barrage of mail. Every few days I was getting something in the mail (thrilling for a 17 yo) with details on orientation, roommates, the RULES, housing request, all of it.

But there was one thing that the University failed to send me: the directions for my school email account. It wasn’t until I arrived on campus and the RA showed me how to retrieve it that I found dozens more messages, these announcing rule changes and opportunities which I’d missed out on.

Stupidity is delivering information to someone without telling them how to access it. When I asked the dean why I had not gotten login instructions along with the forest of mail sent to my home the answer was disconcerting: we emailed it to you.

Meaning, to my new email address. Which I didn’t know existed.

Companies today are no less idiotic.

“Here’s the login for your online account using a username you have never chosen nor has been assigned. Super important info in there!” Thanks, car insurance company. Glad to know I can’t access any of it.

“We must have the account number (that we never assigned you and appears in none of our communication) otherwise we can’t support you in this account which we clearly have on our screens.” Thanks for nothing, internet provider from hell.

The horrible customer “service” leads to an entire community who think they’re bad at “adulting” simply because they don’t want to deal with idiots.

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Quiet Chaos

August 19, 2020 by Kelly Leave a Comment

It’s been quiet around here, at least when it comes to writing, but I have posted a few essays on Facebook. Mostly, it feels like chaos all the time.

My new home is maybe 25% unpacked, with boxes stacked up in the garage. Next week the storage towers I found for the garage arrive and assembling and filling those will be top priority.

I’ve found that I’m missing a lot of storage so I bought the components to build my office bookshelf – but first I need to prime and paint the wall and remove the baseboards.

I have a TV bench for the television in a box, which is simply too heavy to navigate up the stairs on my own right now. So it sits in the garage.

I bought a metal shelf for the laundry room, it hasn’t been put up.

I bought some wood also for shelves in the laundry room. It hasn’t been cut to size.

My bedroom is 50% painted and I keep finding small areas that need touching up. All of the doors on the first floor are hideous and need to be primed and painted but I’ve done none of it.

Right now everything feels chaotic and stressful so I’m going back to the basic routines that keep me sane. Today that means washing all the dishes, taking out the trash and washing walls that need paint. Little by little it will get done.

Filed Under: Hamilton Challenge

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